Universal Tips for a Successful Marriage


15 Universal Tips for a Successful and a Happy Marriage.


1. Be independent

Independence was rated ‘extremely important’ in a marriage.Being dependent, on the other hand, weakens your resolve and ability to move forward as a free thinker.


 2. Be a good listener
Remember that listening and hearing are not the same things. Listening involves our hearts. Open yours, hear what she says, look at her while she speaks, paraphrase even, and reassure. Listening is the real key to a happy marriage, for that matter, to every relationship.


3. Agree to disagree

All couples should have some level of disagreement somewhere. Successful, loving couples respected the point of view of one another and even had a sense of humor over their points of contention..


4. Know your partner’s ‘Love Language’

Observe the physical way in which your partner shows love and you’ll know what makes a successful marriage.
 Understanding love language is the secret to a happy relationship.


5. Acceptance

A major relationship killer, lack of acceptance is a trait more commonly attributed to women, who are known for their nagging.
Change your perspective immediately and start focusing on positive traits instead. 

6. Take responsibility

 When you participate in a project, take responsibility for your successes and your failures.  

7. Never take one another for granted

you absolutely should never come to a place where you take your partner for granted.



8. Date night
A romantic and thoughtful date night is not just one of the steps to a successful marriage but indeed one of the main ingredients of a successful marriage as well.


9. Add romance

There is no shortage of ideas, and you’ll be amazed at how far a little romance goes toward strengthening the relationship.


10. Keep intimacy alive
Sex is very important to a healthy marriage.  Sex should be regular, and therapists suggest doing it even when you’re not in the mood! We suggest keeping it interesting by talking about what pleases you and adding any fantasy role-playing, positions, or bedroom props you may want to introduce to keep it exciting

11. Compliments

Stay positive, and keep track of what your spouse does well.  When the going gets rough and his not-so-great attributes come forward, rather than focusing on the negative, try switching gears, and point out the positive stuff instead.


12. Look for the soft emotion

We are often searching for tips for a successful relationship but fail to realize that a simple thing such as identifying the reality of emotions can keep us on the right track.



 13. Let go of the fantasy
This is not only one of the greatest factors of a successful marriage but plays a huge role in your happiness as an individual too.


14. Do not control
Thing makes a marriage successful are communication, independent time, and healthy indulgences that will keep any couple on track. If you sense you are being controlled or are the controller, get a handle on it or make an appointment for a family analyst.


15. Never use the D- word

Couples using it in a threatening way are more likely to see Divorce come to fruition, So making threats is not a mature strategy for solving any problem, so don’t do it.

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